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Welcome to our weekly art\/life trail ride<\/a>! I trust\u00a0that new insights and adventures are meeting you in every direction! <\/span><\/h4>\n

The art\/life power word for August is Trust.<\/span><\/h4>\n

Dictionary.com: defines Trust:<\/span><\/h4>\n

1. reliance\u00a0on\u00a0the\u00a0integrity,\u00a0strength,\u00a0ability,\u00a0surety,\u00a0etc.,\u00a0of\u00a0a\u00a0person\u00a0or thing;\u00a0confidence.<\/span><\/h4>\n

2.\u00a0confident\u00a0expectation\u00a0of\u00a0something;\u00a0hope.<\/span><\/h4>\n

We learn to trust life through the ups and the downs. \u00a0I use this time each year to consider new and deeper ways to cultivate the quality of trust. \u00a0This week I share two books that I admire, one which is hot off the press. I also reflect on an experience that helped me gain a deeper awareness of how trust can so easily slip away. It helps a lot if there is something that we love so much that we can rise above and beyond distraction. Trust n\u2019 Love = our best art\/life buddies. A favorite art\/life contributor of mine\u00a0Ruth Gendler<\/a> paints a word picture of Trust in The Book of Qualities<\/u><\/em>:<\/span><\/h4>\n

Trust<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h3>\n

Trust is the daughter of Truth. She has an objective memory, neither embellishing nor denying the past. She is an ideal confidante __ gracious, candid, and discreet.
\nTrust talks to people who need to hear her; she listens to those who need to be heard; she sits quietly with those who are skeptical of words. Her presence is subtle, simple, and undeniable.
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\n Trust rarely buys round-trip tickets because she is never sure how long she will be gone and when she will return. Trust us at home in the desert and the city, with dolphins and tigers, with outlaws, lovers and saints. When Trust bought her house, she tore out all of the internal walls, strengthened the foundation, and rebuilt the door. Trust is not fragile, but she has no need to advertise her strength. She has a gambler\u2019s respect for the interplay between luck and skill; she is the mother of Love.<\/em><\/span><\/h4>\n

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The topic of Trust reminds me of my journey to a 5 day conference in Los Angeles. \u00a0The conference celebrated 2 years of intensive learning with a dynamic group of women from around the globe. In the first year of working together we established deep levels of trust in one another and in our ability to dive into areas of the art\/life where we were determined to become more creative and expressive\u2026referred to by one of our teachers as being \u2018Social Artists\u2019.<\/span><\/h4>\n

On the first morning in our waterfront Venice hotel we were led in a break-out exercise. Two hundred and sixty women were placed into small groups of three. Instructions were given to set the scene. The large room buzzed with anticipation. We assigned an A, B, C position to our trio.<\/span><\/h4>\n

A was to sit and act completely uninterested in anything that was said; take on the \u2018I couldn\u2019t care less about you\u2019 stance. B was to pour heart and soul out sharing her deepest learning of the past twelve months. C is the Silent Observer.<\/span><\/h4>\n

I took position B. The Tibetan bell rang signaling the start of the 10 minute investigation.<\/span><\/h4>\n

I shared my experience with gusto. My listener in the A seat looked at the ceiling and rolled her eyes. She stared at the carpet studying its pattern. She gazed out the window sighing heavily while picking at her nail polish. She smirked.<\/span><\/h4>\n

She was following the instruction to not listen<\/em>. She completely and totally dismissed my voice and made sure I knew through her body language that my very presence was an irritant.<\/span><\/h4>\n

I knew in my head that we were each doing what we were supposed to be doing, each in our appointed role. Didn\u2019t matter; I became confused, pained, and angered. A\u2019s dismissal caused me to push back. I spoke fast and tried harder to get her to hear me; I fell out of balance and stuffed the tears that wanted to burst. I abandoned myself. I victimized myself. That was the point\u2026to demonstrate how easy we \u2018go there\u2019.<\/span><\/h4>\n

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After the chime signaled the end of the 10 minute experiment we came back together in the large group and were invited to talk about what had happened. We listened as many B players spoke of the violence and the trauma of being unheard. Again and again women realized the shame and confusion that came from not being listened to. A\u2019s learned something too. They could identify themselves in the role of abuser. No one felt good about what had happened. Women in the C seat spoke of the extreme discomfort of not being able to change the dynamic.<\/span><\/h4>\n

It was actually quite chilling. Here we were a savvy, educated and aware group of women from many parts of the world placed into a situation where we were given the chance to intentionally practice not listening<\/em> to one another<\/strong>. It was a situation where dismissal and inconsequence caused us to revert to a place of disorientation and victimization. Everyone in the room nodded in recognition of this form of psychological\/emotional violence and abuse.<\/span><\/h4>\n

From Me to WE<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

In the afternoon we were placed into new groups of three. This time the women in the A seats were instructed to share deeply, B\u2019s to listen attentively and C\u2019s observe. We were asked to shift the listening dynamic. Sense into and feel connected to the relational field being created by the nature of the share.<\/span><\/h4>\n

The paradigm shift: B listens to A as if what she is saying is \u201cthe most important, never before heard, information\u201d ever heard<\/strong>.<\/span><\/h4>\n

260 women learned first-hand the impact of one approach followed by the other. Listening made the difference\u2026listening and hearing led to a place of deep internal power.<\/span><\/h4>\n

The experience was summed up by Julie who said:<\/span><\/h4>\n

\u201cWhen I started to listen to myself I no longer needed to be heard.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n

The Trust cycle of August prompts a root-deep healing. When we listen and hear deep in our body we can Trust. This is \u00a0followed by Love the focus for the month of September…stay tuned.<\/span><\/h4>\n

\u201cTrust is not fragile, but she has no need to advertise her strength. She has a gambler\u2019s respect for the interplay between luck and skill; she is the mother of Love.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n

Christine Williams (meet her on the Testimonial page<\/a>) has written an exploration into facing and eventually letting go of what stands between her and deep listening in her new book titled:<\/span><\/h4>\n

\"TheListeningProject\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Christine and I have worked together for years and I trust her to be deeply honest and willing to face into the wind as she rides through her art\/life. Christine’s\u00a0creative commitment to listening sends her on a journey of depth discovery. She\u00a0is candid, curious, disciplined and courageous. <\/span><\/h4>\n

The Listening Project<\/em>\u00a0touched, moved and inspired me. It’s an art\/life story and a good read about listening deeply to a variety of lessons. \u00a0The thread running through the fabric of the book is that of\u00a0repeated loss. \u00a0The commitment that Chris has made to The Listening Project<\/em> makes it possible for her to steadily come back into\u00a0a balanced, playful and joyful recovery. I strongly recommend The Listening Project<\/em> as a way to dismount from your frantic efforts and take the time to wander a bit in the empty stable…messages are waiting that are yours and yours alone.<\/span><\/h4>\n

Thanks Christine and Ruth for your word pictures this week!<\/span><\/h4>\n

As we learn while on the trail…the art\/life requires companions and compunction…see you next week…enjoy the ride and notice all the ways that your art\/life brings you to LISTEN UP! and Trust the process.<\/span><\/h4>\n

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Announcement…Coming Soon!<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

TOOLS FOR CHANGE<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

\u00a0 Wednesday, September 23
\n8 pm.<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

4 week\/once weekly e-Studio<\/span><\/h4>\n


\nTools for Change: 8 steps to provide creative structure for\u00a0your art\/life. In Tools for Change we put the fun back into being fun<\/strong>ctional by investing in generating art\/life…<\/span><\/h3>\n
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    Vision<\/span><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n
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    Research<\/span><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n
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    Action<\/span><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n
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    Higher Creativity<\/span><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n
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    Reflection<\/span><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n
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    Sharing<\/span><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n
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    Gratitude<\/span><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n
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    Dreams\u00a0<\/span><\/h4>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    In our ninety minute\u00a0weekly conference call (recordings available if you are unable to attend live) we outline rhythms that are\u00a0in sync with art\/life time. As this Tools for Change e-Studio opens we are beginning the flow of feminine\/receptive time that takes us deep into our roots starting at the fall equinox…which happens to coincide with our start date<\/strong>…how auspicious is that!<\/span><\/h4>\n

    Tools for Change gives you access to the organic flow of feminine time: slower, elegant, rich with ease and grace that moves in a spontaneous intuitive fashion so that your deepest dreams and visions of what your art\/life can be…particularly during our legacy years…blossom and grow.<\/span><\/h4>\n

    By learning the eight steps and applying the four-week process presented in \u201cTools for Change\u201d you will have a wealth of information regarding ways to creatively move your art\/life in an upward spiral Moon by Moon, year by year.\u00a0<\/span><\/h4>\n

    I invite you to become a ‘social artist’ uplifting your self, others and the art\/life.<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n

    In Tools for Change\u00a0you\u2019ll listen to yourself and hear how the information lands for you.\u00a0You will\u00a0create illustrated reference materials that make the work part of your legacy. Kelly and I will also provide structure for you with beautiful PDF handouts.<\/span><\/h4>\n

    I trust that by experiencing \u201cTools for Change\u201d you\u2019ll be motivated to\u00a0discover limitless openings in which imaginative art\/life ideas and inspirations unfold, blossom and evolve . . . all at a slow-flow\/hushed rush natural pace.<\/span><\/h4>\n

    ~See you next week..til then…may we each trust the art\/life trail ride~<\/span><\/h4>\n

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    I am a working He<\/em>artist <\/em>with more than thirty years of practice in supporting the creative best in each of us to come forth and shine.
    \n<\/em><\/span>I invite\u00a0you to connect with\u00a0the uplift of \u2018Luna See\u2019 and     Lifecycle<\/a>; <\/span>time <\/span>management tools for aligning with natural creative rhythms.
    \n<\/span><\/h4>\n

    Travel with me into a realm of calm and\u00a0renewed heart-centered emphasis.\"Droz_Pups_2013\"<\/a><\/span>Through our shared journey with my monthly newsletter\u2018Luna See\u2019 and my creative consult \u2018Lifecycle\u2019 you will discover and expand your ability to experience,<\/span>
    \nexpress, create and contribute your deepest and wisest<\/em> <\/strong>most\u00a0authentic gifts to this unspeakably beautiful world.<\/span><\/h4>\n

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